Taken far to soon.

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A girl I know, died last night. In a car crash. She was 19.

She was popular and well liked. 

She was beautiful and always smiling.

She was so so so young!

Her and her sister were inseparable, like twins.

I cant begin to imagine what her family must be going through. And how her sister is managing to come to terms with the loss. How would you?

I don't know what to write alongside the photo of the sisters on Facebook, like the other 100 odd people. I feel at a total loss for words.

I feel sick. I feel angry. And I feel unbelievably sad.

Such a waste of a life.

There are lots of things I wont ever get my head around or begin to understand and this is one of them.

Life sucks sometimes.

Being a good person

It's perfectly natural to not like everyone we meet. Some piss you off intentionally, some without doing anything at all and others because they're simply not a nice person. Not all people are good or have  good morals, but what is the best way to deal with these types of people?

There are two types of people in this world and I'm still trying to figure out which one I want to be! 

* There are the ones who are straight talking, they say it how it is, no sugar coating shit! You know where you stand with these people, if you're not liked then they don't give you the time of day. They are real and have a 'don't mess with me attitude' they don't forgive or forget. 

* Then there are the tolerate ones who are polite and nice. They try to be the better person, they rise above the BS and strive for the easy life. They forgive easily but don't necessarily forget, they're just good at hiding it. 

Is the second person morally wrong for not being true to themselves? or is the first causing themselves more agro for being truthful? but are they less likely to be taken advantage of in the long run?  

Which person is the better person? 

How would you rather people were with you, honest or polite? 

You can't be liked by everyone but can we all really get on, or at least pretend to? 

#WickedWednesday

I'm the reason supermarkets sell cake.

May Round-up

**Rounding-up May**

This month has been a really positive month for me. I've been pro-active and motivated, not just in my blogging life but my personal one too.   
I've made an effort to keep up with my fitness and I feel so much better for it. I put all this down to the fact I have been having more sleep :)
Also I have spent more time with friends, then I have done in a long time! I have been such a rubbish friend. I believe this is such a good pick me up, it makes you feel more like a person and not just a mum.

**My May pic's**

  

**My May Fav's**

 - Impulse, Be surprised, violet and red fruits. I'm addicted to this scent and it will defiantly be repurchased a few times in the next couple of months.
As featured in one of my #LittleLove posts.

- Family day out at a Nature park, with a picnic and a nature walk, I highly recommend fresh air and cheap family days out.

- My new iPhone. I just love a new toy, it felt like Christmas the day it arrived. All shinny and new :)

- The new linky #Effitfriday this is right up my street and has to be the best idea for a linky ever. Dedicated to the art of ranting, of which I am a pro.
hosted by Modern dad pages and Life with baby kicks 
check it out every Tuesday from 6pm

**My May Fail's**

- Losing weight has got to be my biggest fail this month,

good food and cider are just too much of a temptation.

- I've also not applied for any new jobs this month, this is down to the fact i'm still weighing up the pro's and con's of leaving my
very comfort job and taking a risk.

**My own fav post**

My reasons for blogging

** Blogs I loved**

Pouting in heels A letter to women in abusive relationships from a survivor of one

Mama and more - teaching my first yoga classes

Dear Martam - why are you in love with bad boy

The Unmumsymum Mum - Too honest you say

hurrah for gin - unfortunate signs you are getting old



**In the diary for next month**

- The carnival
- My daughters football presentation
- Spontaneous BBQ's (so not in the diary but are a must)  


**Previous months round-ups**

April
March
February


**Linked up to**